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The truth about orgasms (finally!)

Orgasms can be a tricky subject to talk about, as well as sex in general. Many of us feel uncomfortable discussing the intimacies of the bedroom, and some people love talking about it! There’s no law that says one is right and the other wrong, but talking about sex can help people feel better about what they’re going through. Many women find it difficult to experience an orgasm during intercourse, and for some women everything just clicks naturally! Talking about the mechanics of orgasms could help anyone who finds it difficult and is just really interesting too! Keep reading to find out EmpressBody’s amazing orgasm facts!

1. Orgasms can cause pain relief!

Some forms of pain, like headaches or joint pain can actually be relieved through orgasms! It's largely due to the body's release of oxytocin during orgasm, a chemical that creates feelings of bonding, relaxation, and other positive emotional states. The only problem is that the pain relief might be short lived and is not a permanent cure.

2. It's not easy for women to reach orgasm.

If you don’t often, or have never come during sex, then don’t worry! You’re not alone. One of the best ways of overcoming this is A.) Talking to your friends – you’ll be surprised how common it really is! B.) Focus on clitoral stimulation! C.) Invest in some lube! Try the EmpressBody Yoni Elixir!

The EmpressBody Elixir Oil can be used as lubricant when applied directly to the entrance of the vagina but as it contains coconut oil it should not be used in conjunction with silicone-based condoms. The Empress Yoni Oil can also help to:

Soothes irritation

Assists in preventing infections

Natural lubricant that can be used during intercourse

Rids excess discharge

Strengthens vaginal tissues



Cleansing properties


Toner & Rejuvenator

Click here to read more about the EmpressBody Elixir Oil

3. Orgasm gets better with age.

Vaginal dryness and menopause are not the nail in the coffin for older women’s sex lives! Not one bit! Being older can actually make your orgasms more intense because: older women have more experience and know what they enjoy, have more confidence to ask for what they want, are emotionally supported and trusting in long-term relationships! Yay!

4. Your self-esteem matters.

In the famous words of Mama Ru: “If you can’t love yourself, how in the hell are you gonna love someone else??” This could not be truer than when it comes to sex and orgasms! Your confidence in yourself and your acceptance of your imperfections will boost your enjoyment of sex! If you’re worried about wobbly bits or how you look from certain angles it can be hard to really be in the moment and truly enjoy sex, which is a vital part of reaching an orgasm.

5. Women can take more than 15 minutes to orgasm.

Women typically take longer to reach an orgasm than men, this can be a problem for some couples, but proper foreplay can help! Take some time to ease into things, share the pleasure and relax! (Also, don’t be afraid to be selfish, women’s orgasms are complicated things that require a lot of stimulation of disparate nerve endings – of course it’s harder to come!)

How can EmpressBody help?

Empress Empowering Wand

A natural and gentle way to cleanse, tighten and keep your honeypot smelling sweet. It helps to rid yonis (vagina) of BV, odour and melasma. Tightens yoni, cleans the vagina environment and balances pH, regulates the menstrual cycle, improves elasticity in the yoni, and creates enhanced sexual sensation and lubrication. It can stimulate the female hormone and delay aging, eliminate toxins and helps renew yoni cells.

Click here to read more about the EmpressBody Empowering Wand

The EmpressBody Yoni Steam

On an emotional level, yoni steaming supports us to cultivate a profound sense of self-love and increases our self-confidence (especially as it relates to our yonis!), which helps us to feel more sexy and sensual. On the physical level, yoni steaming increases circulation and increases lubrication, which can help increase libido and makes sex more enjoyable! And, the very act of steaming is slightly arousing, which helps us get turned on!

Click here to read more about the benefits of using the EmpressBody Yoni Steam

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